Saturday, September 12, 2009

She's a sophomore!

What the heck happened?  One day I was gathering books like "Ping" and "Madeline" to use for our "Five in a Row" homeschool curriculum, and the next day I turn around to find Emily towering over me at 5'6", taking drivers' ed, and moderating a facebook group for the youth symphony where she is concert mistress.  Again I say, what happened???

I know exactly what happened.  Ten years happened.  I was there for all of them, and present for the passage of each unique day.  That's how it goes, and all we have is "the present"--a gift, if we remember to see it as such.

Today is a special gift.  I'm off work, being lazy, and listening to the thunder crash and the soft rain falling outside the bedroom window.  This might be Chilly kitten's first rainfall!  He's sitting by the screen, looking out at the leaf-covered ground; the last thunder crash made him poof up mightily and look at me with his great round eyes.  It feels like the kind of storm that happens on the East Coast, but not so often here.  I love the smell of rain!

Emily didn't want to return to the junior academy for her 10th grade year, and it feels too early for her to go to boarding school.  I related the angst that went into deciding where she should be educated this year in an earlier post, so I won't revisit the subject.  This year she's homeschooling again, for the last time.

Sophomore subjects are:  English language arts, Algebra II, Chemistry, French II, Art, Music, Drivers' ed and training, and P.E.  Emily attends "Beyond Basic" classes three mornings a week for English, Algebra, and Chemistry.  She'll also have an art class there, but for now art is with our good friend Shona. Music is covered by violin and piano, plus our new little community handbell choir.  P.E. will be swimming with TCA when it resumes in October.  For now P.E. is exercise in any form, whenever she does it.  French II is an online course (with an instructor) called "Power Speak", and I think she's doing well with it.  Drivers' Ed is also online, and after she has her permit, it will include lessons with the local driving school.

Now, I will get off the computer and enjoy the thunder and lightning show on this warm and rainy day!

Summer. . .Summery. . .Summary

June, July, and August didn't just fly by, but they moved quickly enough that I didn't make time to post on the blog.  I don't say "have time", because we all have time for what matters most.  Now, as I transform to a working full-time, homeschooling mother and wife, I struggle to identify my top priorities. Apparently blogging is a secondary matter!

Emily's summer was filled with:
  • volunteering at Vacation Bible School, leading a group of preschoolers
  • volunteering at the Humane Society. . .not often, but often enough to grow attached to a kitten there, who now resides with us.  His name is Achilles, and we call him Chilly for short. . .or "kitten", or "hey, stop chewing on the cords", or "stop climbing the screens", or "leave Sassy alone", or "stop trying to eat Hershey's food", or "stop chewing on my nose". Chilly has introduced an element of chaos to our otherwise orderly home. . .probably good for all of us.
  • swimming at the fitness center with the youth swim team, "TCA"
  • continuing violin and piano lessons, and practicing
  • swimming in our pool 
  • caring for kids (too old to be regarded as "babysitting") and giving a couple violin lessons
  • camping with our good friends the Larsens at Wright's Lake
  • attending Pacific Quest, academic summer camp, for the second and last year. . .this year's subjects were "psychology" and "French"
  • keeping up with friends on Facebook
  • getting together with friends. . .a few times, anyway
  • finishing the summer by going to Discovery Kingdom, formerly known as Marine World, with some friends, and riding crazy roller coasters
Wayne's summer was filled with:
  • changing jobs as a result of the state budget changes
  • filling in the gaps made by my transition to full-time work
  • being a general "everything to everyone" kind of guy at home
My summer was filled with:
  • working
  • working
  • and most especially, working
  • camping, and going to Discovery Kingdom, but skipping the crazy roller coasters
  • finishing my one and only special craft project--a digital scrapbook/yearbook for Emily's freshman year. . . .it turned out gorgeous, and I'm ready to start the next one

My work changed from part time (20 hours/week) to full time, and my job description is no longer "home health field nurse" and "chart auditor".  It is now "intake coordinator".  My workplace underwent a metamorphosis as the local Visiting Nurse Association merged with our hospital- based home health agency. The hospital system purchased VNA from the county.  Our staff doubled (think "blended family"), and we moved to VNA's office.  We lost a long-time well-loved office nurse during this time, and eventually I was moved into her role, but cannot fill her shoes.

Life is filled with change.  I'd probably never choose change, but in the current economic climate, it seemed prudent to seize the job opportunity when it was available.  There is joy in the change. I don't work weekends, holidays, or nights; I don't take call; I get more money, and our family gets insurance benefits.  Oh, and most importantly, I love the people I work with.

Technically I wouldn't say that I am homeschooling Emily right now.  She's schooling herself with help, but I'll cover that in the next post.